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In this Scenario we are going to experimentwith incorporating a fetish into your kinky play

Kinky Time S&M BDSM icon in the Kamorii online sex guide

In this Scenario we are going to experimentwith incorporating a fetish into your kinky play

Tools Needed

Shoes or Boots

Choose footwear that excites the partner who is playing the dominant

Blindfold

Optional

Gag

Optional

Preparation & Pre-Role Play Considerations

It is impossible to suggest a “one size fits all” scenario that everyone will enjoy. This scenario is for those who are brand new to exploring fetishes. As fetish play is such an important aspect of kink, try using this scenario to get you used to the idea of playing with a fetish
If you have a fetish and have discussed it at length with your partner, then you can substitute that fetish for the one suggested here. Just ensure that you apply the safety advice and try your best to follow the outlined activities and apply them to your fetish where you can.

This is a good time to talk about SAFETY

Cleanliness & Wear and Tear : This scenario deals with items of clothing, so make sure they are clean, wipe everything down with mild antiseptic. In fact the dominant could order the submissive to clean the shoes as a task. Check the shoes for any damage that could cause a problem, for example sharp edges or missing heel tips. Try not to use anything with spikes or pointy edges.
Communication : As always, communication is key and not just during the scenario, with fetishes you could end up discussing things that are very personal and require a lot of trust between you both. So be understanding and supportive, even if your partner loves shoes and feet and you just do not get what the big deal is.
Keep any bonds comfortable : If you decide to use any restraints in this scenario, it is good idea to sit down before you get to the bedroom and just practice tying each others’ wrists. Check that there is no major discomfort and find a position and level of tightness that is comfortable for the person to be restrained. As a rule of thumb leave enough space so that you can slide two fingers comfortably between the limb and the bonds. Basic bow knots (the same as tying shoelaces) will be fine.
Safe Words & Safe Signs : As was discussed in the Dominance & Submission Scenario, it is advisable to use of safe words and signals during these early stages of exploring kink together.

Playing with a FetishExample using a Shoe Fetish

STEP 1

Get together with your partner and start listing the things that come into your mind when you think of the fetish. Here are some ideas:

Is a particular pair of shoes part of an overall outfit or look that you like? Some examples are: thigh high boots on a dominant woman, military style boots on a man in uniform, classy heels with stockings on a sexy business woman, smart shoes on a man in a business suit, flip flops on a sexy surfer dude, etc.

Is the style, colour or material important? Is it just red patent heels that you like, black Dr Marten boots or yellow Havaianas flip flops? Maybe it is expensive designer shoes or stripper heels, whatever the style, material or colour.

Is the foot a part of the body that you like? This also includes associated areas and apparel, so think toes, toenails, nail polish, toe jewellery, ankles, ankle chains, legs, garters, stockings, suspenders, etc. Does the smell of feet in shoes excite you? What about the smell of feet and ankles in stockings or in the footwear?

Shoe Dominance and Submission: If the partner with the fetish takes on the submissive role, do you like the idea of being ordered to kneel before your dominant and kiss their shoes? Similarly if you are the dominant with the fetish, do you like the idea of your submissive having a weakness for your shoes that you can use to dominate and control them?

STEP 1

Get together with your partner and start listing the things that come into your mind when you think of the fetish. Here are some ideas:

Is a particular pair of shoes part of an overall outfit or look that you like? Some examples are: thigh high boots on a dominant woman, military style boots on a man in uniform, classy heels with stockings on a sexy business woman, smart shoes on a man in a business suit, flip flops on a sexy surfer dude, etc.

Is the style, colour or material important? Is it just red patent heels that you like, black Dr Marten boots or yellow Havaianas flip flops? Maybe it is expensive designer shoes or stripper heels, whatever the style, material or colour.

Is the foot a part of the body that you like? This also includes associated areas and apparel, so think toes, toenails, nail polish, toe jewellery, ankles, ankle chains, legs, garters, stockings, suspenders, etc. Does the smell of feet in shoes excite you? What about the smell of feet and ankles in stockings or in the footwear?

Shoe Dominance and Submission: If the partner with the fetish takes on the submissive role, do you like the idea of being ordered to kneel before your dominant and kiss their shoes? Similarly if you are the dominant with the fetish, do you like the idea of your submissive having a weakness for your shoes that you can use to dominate and control them?

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