About this Guide


Preparation


About this Guide


Here we give you guidance on how to deliver a perfect blowjob. This guide ensures that you will stimulate all areas of the penis and its surrounding areas. Be mindful to check his response at each stage and make a mental note of what he enjoys the most. You can then focus on these areas when you decide to bring him to orgasm. One of the key issues here is prolonging stimulation time and avoiding premature ejaculation, so ease up if he starts showing signs of orgasm too early. You could also try showing him the images below and see which ones he likes, you can then design your own bespoke blowjob for him.

Preparation


Set aside some private time for you and your partner. Try to ensure you will not be disturbed for at least an hour. Put on some chilled music as this will help you and your partner relax. Dim the lighting or light some candles and burn some incense to set the mood. Grab your, or your partner’s favourite edible lubricant.

About this Guide


Here we give you guidance on how to deliver a perfect blowjob. This guide ensures that you will stimulate all areas of the penis and its surrounding areas. Be mindful to check his response at each stage and make a mental note of what he enjoys the most. You can then focus on these areas when you decide to bring him to orgasm. One of the key issues here is prolonging stimulation time and avoiding premature ejaculation, so ease up if he starts showing signs of orgasm too early. You could also try showing him the images below and see which ones he likes, you can then design your own bespoke blowjob for him.

Preparation


Set aside some private time for you and your partner. Try to ensure you will not be disturbed for at least an hour. Put on some chilled music as this will help you and your partner relax. Dim the lighting or light some candles and burn some incense to set the mood. Grab your, or your partner’s favourite edible lubricant.


Here we give you guidance on how to deliver a perfect blowjob. This guide ensures that you will stimulate all areas of the penis and its surrounding areas. Be mindful to check his response at each stage and make a mental note of what he enjoys the most. You can then focus on these areas when you decide to bring him to orgasm. One of the key issues here is prolonging stimulation time and avoiding premature ejaculation, so ease up if he starts showing signs of orgasm too early. You could also try showing him the images below and see which ones he likes, you can then design your own bespoke blowjob for him.

Set aside some private time for you and your partner. Try to ensure you will not be disturbed for at least an hour. Put on some chilled music as this will help you and your partner relax. Dim the lighting or light some candles and burn some incense to set the mood. Grab your, or your partner’s favourite edible lubricant.


Stage 1 Lubricate & Massage

It is a good idea to deliver some hand moves prior to oral stimulation. Lubricate the penis with edible lube and give it a nice “all over” hand massage to warm it up. Lather up and down the shaft, gently around the testicles and on the penis head.

Picture of Durex Edible Lube

Stage 1 Lubricate & Massage

Picture of Durex Edible Lube

It is a good idea to deliver some hand moves prior to oral stimulation. Lubricate the penis with edible lube and give it a nice “all over” hand massage to warm it up. Lather up and down the shaft, gently around the testicles and on the penis head.

Stage 2 Testicle Side licks

Now move to Kneel between his legs and start licking and sucking around the edge of his testicles. Do not yet lick the testicles or hold the penis. This move is hands off and all about building anticipation.

Stage 2 Testicle Side licks

Now move to Kneel between his legs and start licking and sucking around the edge of his testicles. Do not yet lick the testicles or hold the penis. This move is hands off and all about building anticipation.

Stage 3 Perineum & Million Dollar Lick

Next, move around so you are facing his legs and lower your head towards his perineum. Deliver some strong licks to this area and near the anus. Give some full long strokes from just below his testicles to just before his anus. Again do not touch or lick the penis just yet.

Stage 3 Perineum & Million Dollar Lick

Next, move around so you are facing his legs and lower your head towards his perineum. Deliver some strong licks to this area and near the anus. Give some full long strokes from just below his testicles to just before his anus. Again do not touch or lick the penis just yet.

Stage 4 Shaft Tease

Next, use an open mouth and flaccid tongue to gently run up the side of his penis shaft. Move to the other side and deliver the same move down towards the testicles. You are still not yet holding or touching the penis with your hands.

Stage 4 Shaft Tease

Next, use an open mouth and flaccid tongue to gently run up the side of his penis shaft. Move to the other side and deliver the same move down towards the testicles. You are still not yet holding or touching the penis with your hands.

Stage 5 Lower Shaft Lick

Prior to licking the full shaft, hold the penis and use your tongue and mouth to work around the base of the shaft.

Stage 5 Lower Shaft Lick

Prior to licking the full shaft, hold the penis and use your tongue and mouth to work around the base of the shaft.

Stage 6 Shaft Hold & Lick

Next, now gently hold the penis head with your fingertips and start massaging it; add more lube if needed. Now start licking and sucking up and down the penis shaft.

Stage 6 Shaft Hold & Lick

Next, now gently hold the penis head with your fingertips and start massaging it; add more lube if needed. Now start licking and sucking up and down the penis shaft.

Stage 7 Testicle Play

It is now time to give a bit of attention to his testicles. Check first that he enjoys his testicles being stimulated. If so, gently cup them in one hand and give them a very gentle squeeze. Now deliver them some soft licks and kisses.

Stage 7 Testicle Play

It is now time to give a bit of attention to his testicles. Check first that he enjoys his testicles being stimulated. If so, gently cup them in one hand and give them a very gentle squeeze. Now deliver them some soft licks and kisses.

Stage 8 Front licks

In preparation for full mouth engulfing, move around to his side and start licking and sucking on the front side of the penis. Gently hold the penis up to access this side.

Stage 8 Front licks

In preparation for full mouth engulfing, move around to his side and start licking and sucking on the front side of the penis. Gently hold the penis up to access this side.

Stage 9 Penis Head Stimulation

The penis will now be ready for some intense stimulation. Start massaging the shaft up and down with one hand and continue this movement whilst orally stimulating the head.

Now start sucking and licking the penis head and ensure that you give some focused attention to the coronal ridge and the frenulum. Engulf the penis head in your mouth and start flicking your tongue around it and suck it with your lips.

Stage 9 Penis Head Stimulation

The penis will now be ready for some intense stimulation. Start massaging the shaft up and down with one hand and continue this movement whilst orally stimulating the head.

Now start sucking and licking the penis head and ensure that you give some focused attention to the coronal ridge and the frenulum. Engulf the penis head in your mouth and start flicking your tongue around it and suck it with your lips.

Stage 10 The Final Blow

Finally it is time for some deep throat. Move into a comfortable position and cover your teeth with your lips. Gently hold his testicles and start bobbing up and down taking the penis fully in your mouth.

Now try and open up the back of your throat and take the penis further in, as far as you can take it. Try some mild swallowing as this can help.

Keep this movement regular, strong and consistent and continue until you feel him approaching orgasm.

Decide whether you want to make him orgasm or not. If not move your mouth away and gently press his million dollar spot.

If you want to make him ejaculate, continue your deep throat and start gently squeezing his testicles.

Stage 10 The Final Blow

Finally it is time for some deep throat. Move into a comfortable position and cover your teeth with your lips. Gently hold his testicles and start bobbing up and down taking the penis fully in your mouth.

Now try and open up the back of your throat and take the penis further in, as far as you can take it. Try some mild swallowing as this can help.

Keep this movement regular, strong and consistent and continue until you feel him approaching orgasm.

Decide whether you want to make him orgasm or not. If not move your mouth away and gently press his million dollar spot.

If you want to make him ejaculate, continue your deep throat and start gently squeezing his testicles.

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